About a year ago, I wrote a story for the Catholic Review about Mark Viviano and his brother, Tony, who was was on a path to becoming a priest.
You can read that story here
For those of you who don't know, Mark is the sports director and anchor of WJZ-13, the CBS affiliate in Baltimore. Viviano also does occasional on-air work for the Mid-Atlantic Sports Network and formerly had a show on 105.7 The Fan. He's a down-to-earth guy committed to his faith in quiet and big ways. Most people don't know that about him.
I checked in with Mark June 11, two days after his brother was ordained a priest for the Jefferson City Diocese to see how everything went.
Matt: What was it like seeing your brother ordained Saturday?
Mark: The ordination was a beautiful ceremony. Among the many sights that struck me was the power of the priestly fraternity. Every priest from the Jefferson City, MO diocese was present (about 40 of them) to welcome the four newly ordained- each laying their hands on the new priests in welcome and encouragement. Funny that I didn't find the ceremony itself too overwhelming as I took Tony's cue that it was his destiny- the culmination of a commitment that's been in the works for years. More of a formality at that point- but no doubt a meaningful and beautiful one.
Matt: Did you ever think, even after all his seminary work and when he became a transitional deacon, that this would actually happen?
Mark: Absolutely and never in doubt. I mentioned it in the previous answer- the ordination was the formal culmination of a commitment that Tony has diligently pursued for years. I never doubted his commitment to the goal. It's been hard for him at times to remain patient as he's been so anxious to be ordained and begin his work as a priest.
Matt: For you, what was the most moving moment?
Mark: The most moving moment for me actually occurred after the ordination ceremony, after everyone had left. Tony (now Father Tony) went next door to St. Joseph's Cathedral (where he was ordained) to the home of the Carmelite nuns. He has been working with the nuns over the years and they requested that after he was ordained that he come to their convent and offer them his first priestly blessings. Tony invited me to come with him before I drove him back home to St. Louis. One by one the nuns knelt before him and he offered his blessing. Seeing him for the first time working as a priest, just hours after his ordination, it struck me fully then that my brother is a Catholic priest. A very, very powerful sight to see.
Matt: Did you get to go to your brother's first Mass celebrated as a priest? How did he do?
Mark: His first Mass was the next day at my Dad's church, the parish of the Ascension in Chesterfield, MO. Father Tony was incredible! As I told him afterward, it was clear that God was speaking through him and Tony delivered impeccably. His homily on the significance of the eucharist was so powerfully delivered. Most emotional was in the wrap-up of the Mass and Tony sharing his thoughts about our late mother who passed away 30 years ago. It was hard to hold back the tears at that time. A wonderful first Mass.
Matt: What kind of priest do you think your brother will be? What can people look forward to with him?
Mark: Father Tony is dedicated to the solemn duty of upholding the Catholic church. He believes fully in the privilege and power of being Catholic, it's tenets and traditions. He is a devoted caretaker of the lineage that extends more than two thousand years and he is proud to follow in the footsteps of the many who have come before him. He is caring, loving and encouraging by nature and will be someone people will feel comfortable turning to for help, advice and blessings. I consider him a true leader who is well suited for the role of priest.
Matt: Is there anything about your brother's life that people can learn from?
Mark: Tony's life offers many lessons for all of us. Foremost is his example of keeping one's heart open to God. Tony fathered his daughter Melanie 23 years ago and though he did not marry Melanie's mother, he stayed close to the mother and child and was integral in raising Melanie, something he prayed about often. He was running a successful business when he felt the calling to become a priest and after much discernment he answered that call. He's lived what many would already describe as a full life, yet he begins a new chapter as he's soon to turn 50 years old, his heart open to our Lord all along.
Matt: Were there many tears in your family this weekend?
Mark: Many tears of joy amongst us all. Tony has often referred our Dad as his guiding light and the weekend was most emotional for our dad, Joseph. At the end of the his first Mass he presented Dad with his first confessional vestment (I believe it's tradition for a newly ordained priest to do so). We all cried, especially Dad! And remembering our late Mom and her guiding influence was also a reason for many emotions. All of them good emotions, all of them shared by so many family members gathered in a celebration unlike any other. One that we'll never forget.
June 11, 2012 09:05
By Matt Palmer
If you've ever met Pat Sprankle and Sean Comber, you know they are both creative and innovative. Pat's the youth minister at St. Louis in Clarksville and recently was honored with the Cardinal Shehan Award for his service. Sean is a college-aged young adult who has been a major contributor in recent years with Archdiocese of Baltimore youth and young adult multimedia presentations.
Recently, the two got together to create a really cool video for St. Louis youth ministry in the form of an late-night informercial. It's both funny and informative. And, it comes at the low, low price of free. Sean was kind enough to answer some questions about how the video came together. Check out his answers below and watch the video.
Matt: How did you come aboard the project?
Sean: Pat Sprankle and I were talking around Christmas time about doing a new video for the St Louis CYM program because their old one was nearing the end of its life cycle and it was time to make some changes. To answer this question, it was simply being at the right place at the right time and having a conversation.
Matt: Where did the idea come from?
Sean: We wanted something that would be fun to watch and grab attention, while still getting across important information. In my mind this could only lead to a cheesy informercial where the product being sold was the program.
Matt: What got you pumped about doing something like this?
Sean: I really loved the concept of this video. Everything about this video was fun for me. It's fun to write something so crazy and it's fun to go into editing with the thought, "How can I make this absolutely insane?" The idea that I can get away with cheesy 50s music and kids cheering when the offer is doubled, was incredibly fun for me.
Matt: How long was the shoot and at what locations?
Sean: The shoot was back in March and took place at St. Louis Parish in a classroom that is used as a multipurpose room. My crew arrived at around 2:30 p.m. and left around 10:30 p.m.. We also visited a few CYM activities and shot interviews.
Matt: How did you guys get everyone in it to go along with it?
Sean: This was pretty easy. For the interviews we can simply tell people that we are shooting a promotional video and the general reaction is excitement. For the main characters, however, after talking about the idea and script, everyone seemed to be very interested in what we could pull off.
Matt: How did you pull off the informercial look?
Sean: A lot of the informercial look came from the writing of the script. There are certain catch phrases that need to be a part of the video to make it look like a informercial such as: "But wait, we'll double the offer," "That's not all" and "Money back guarantee." All this combined with good acting, cheesy music and backdrop and the before and after shots make it really seem like an infomercial.
Matt: What program did you use to do the editing and sound?
Sean: All the video editing is done in Adobe After Effects and Premiere. All sound is edited in Pro Tools.
Matt: Did you use any green screen?
Sean: This video is almost entirely green screen. With the exception of the interviews and the before and after shot, everything was shot on a green screen.
Matt: Did you have to do a lot of takes with the cast?
Sean: Yes. We did a total of three runs of the script getting close shots, mid shots and full shots. Additionally, within each run we did at least four or five takes for each scene.
Matt: How happy are you with the finished product?
Sean: I was very happy with how the finished product ended up. I was very pleased to see that all the jokes landed and the concept worked. Additionally I am pleased to see that the general consensus for the video is positive and everyone involved seems to be very happy with it.
Matt: What's your favorite moment in there?
Sean: I love that we were able to do the obvious before and after shots with shaky footage and desaturated video turning into smooth vibrant footage. This was especially fun for me and really makes it into the stereotypical informercial.
Matt: Why is being involved in youth ministry, including as a young adult, so important to you?
Sean: I have learned a ton from being involved with youth ministry and I have been given a lot more opportunities to make myself known and be of use in the archdiocese because of youth ministry. I would not have been given the chance to make this video if I had not already know Pat Sprankle through other youth ministry related events. Youth ministry has opened more doors that I could have ever hoped for.
May 30, 2012 11:40
By Matt Palmer
There's something different about Church of the Nativity in Timonium. It's a community that inspires its laity and, in turn, is inspired by its laity. It's a movement that's changing York Road and beyond. I'm working on a story for CatholicReview.org about ServeFest, which Nativity played a major role in this past weekend.
But, first...
One of my favorite things about my job is getting to talk to young people involved in their faith and sharing their stories with people in Baltimore and across the world. Teens hit the reset button for me and make me want to re-discover my faith again because of their enthusiasm.
At ServeFest, I talked with four high school students - Katie Leslie, Lauren Becker, Brooke Wareheim and Caitlin O'Connor - who are living proof that young people are making a difference in the church, the community and the world. They're part of a small group at Nativity led by Kristin Costanza. If you watch this video, you'll see how much impact lay ministers can have on young people thanks to authentic leadership.
Witness their testimony in this spotlight video:
April 29, 2012 05:11
By Matt Palmer
"As the pastor said to the cabbage patch, lettuce pray."
Those were the words of Father Matthew Buening, pastor of St. Paul's Parish in Ellicott City, during Masses this weekend. His timing, both comedic and, in the religious setting, couldn't have been better. It caught some people off guard and others giggled. But, it set just the right tone for people to enjoy their weekend Mass more.
The eighth day of Easter is a pretty joyful one for Catholics, although one its older names is "Low Sunday." It's also called "Bright Sunday" or "Holy Humor Sunday." The day allows Christians to revel in the miracle of Christ's resurrection and other smaller ones in our lives.
Father Buening was able to sprinkle humor throughout the Mass and his joy in ministry made me think of Father James Martin, the Jesuit who has become one of the church's most noteworthy representatives in recent years.
Father Martin, a noted author has written a book called "Between Heaven and Mirth: Why Joy, Humor and Laughter Are at the Heart of the Spiritual Life." Father Martin has been to Baltimore several times in recent months and each time he's had the various crowds howling with laughter.
It got me thinking about much of a difference joy makes in the faith of a congregation. When a priest rejoices in his vocation, that's infectious. People see that joy and want more of it. I encourage you to watch the video below of Father Martin taken by Catholic Review assistant managing editor George Matysek Jr. last year. He points out ten reasons for joy in the faith and it's something we can all learn from on this day.
Happy Bright Sunday, everyone.
April 15, 2012 12:16
By Matt Palmer
Alex Libby is picked on relentlessly in "Bully." (Courtesy The Weinstein Company)
Near the end of the documentary“Bully,” a school principal sits down with the parents of a constantly picked on pre-teen. The mother implores the principal to stop the bullies from attacking her son, Alex Libby, on the bus
“I’ve been on those buses,” the principal says in return. “They’re just as good as gold.”
By the time the scene rolls around in the 72-minute movie, you’ll want to yell at the screen, “Wake up!”That’s undoubtedly director Lee Hirsch’s point with “Bully.” Inaction perpetuates the problem of bullying.
In a montage of violence against Alex leading up the parent-principal meeting, we see the boy known as “Fish Face,” punched, slapped, cursed at and stabbed with pencils. His head bounces off the back of a bus seat and it stings for him and us.
Alex, earlier in the movie, is confronted by his mother. Alex has played down the bullying he’s incurred. She tries to tell him that the bullies are not his friends.
Alex responds: “If you say these people aren't my friends, then what friends do I have?" It’s the kind of sad response that will bring you to tears. It’s not the first or last time during the film when that will happen.
Some adults remember their school days more fondly than others. Some who don’t were the objects of scorn, exclusion, taunts and violence. Schools can be a cruel place for the awkward or different. “Bully” shows how bad it can for those who don’t have anyone to fight for them.
The principal in that scene with Alex’s parents is well-meaning. You see her throughout the film try to defend those who can’t do it for themselves. But, she also buries her head in the sand several times, making the bullied feel as responsible as the bullies. She tries to mend fences and not get to the root of the problem.
While Alex’s story tends to get the most attention, there are other teens who get time to talk about their experiences. While it’s hard not to feel bad for them as they struggle with the pain, you never really see their encounters. You follow the crusade of a husband and wife mourning the suicide of their son, Tyler Long. His tragic decision will be the catalyst for their calls to end bullying locally and nationally.
In the case of one teen who has come out as a lesbian, we just see her wander the town with her friends, but never see much else. Perhaps the filmmakers weren’t allowed the access to her surroundings the way they are with Libby. She's clearly troubled and out of place in her rural settings.
Libby’s encounters are so painful that perhaps that’s enough teen-on-teen violence for one film. We see what happens when other teens bullied snap into action. The ramifications of one girl’s decisions are awful to sit through, if only because you realize how young she is to be in such a mess. When you see a girl wave a gun on a bus, threatening her bullies, you wonder how it ever came to this in the first place.
It's haunting.
De-humanizing bullying happens every day and if we turn a blind eye to the reality of the situation, as the principal does, real cultural change is not going to happen. "Bully" takes us places we don't want to go, but that's the mark of a truly great documentary.
Children and teens should be able to handle "Bully" in the theaters. Many see and experience what happens in the film every day. Now, they can know they're not alone and that someone's on their side. "Bully" shows it's time to fight back.
April 11, 2012 09:29
By Matt Palmer
Although I saw the controversial new documentary "Bully" last week in Baltimore, I can't review it until Wednesday. But, as someone who covers youths and young adults for CatholicReview.org, I can tell you that I was left with several questions, including the subject line: Will "Bully" make a difference in our society?
As the title of the film suggests, it's meant to explore the impact bullying has on our country's children. Schools all over the country - public, private and Catholic - have some form of bullying happening in classrooms, recess lots, cafeterias, gyms, bleachers, in lines, buses and by the flag pole.
During the last few years, we've heard about young people committing suicide or acts of incredible violence toward others because they were bullied. The mental damage was too great and they couldn't take it anymore. It's prompted celebrities to speak out in various campaigns to stop bullying.
Watching "Bully," I was flooded with memories of my own childhood in Hyattsville. I remember several classmates of mine who were verbally picked on by others. There were the kids with lice, that smelled, that were poor, were 'psycho,' and the "weirdo" who couldn't escape scorn.
I was the short kid and while I got teased from time to time, I never felt physically in danger. I handled myself well enough despite always being the kid put at the front of the line.
But, I remember the hurt in the faces of those who were on the end of far more intense taunts.
As we got older, kids at our school got in fights and that led to our principal, Sister of Notre Dame de Namur Joyce Volpini, to start playing "That's What Friends Are For" over the loud speaker every day until we changed. I'd imagine Elton John, Stevie Wonder, Dionne Warwick and Gladys Knight are owed some royalties for the amount of times that was played at St. Jerome back in the 1980s. While she was well-intentioned, she was kind of inadvertently training us to despise that song for decades to come. We heard it... a lot.
When you're in elementary school, you think your classmates will be with you forever. You don't realize how, at least in Catholic schools, you'll go your separate ways. You don't think that someone else will spend the rest of their lives hating the mere mention of your name.
Thanks to Facebook, I've been able to connect with many of my classmates. But, there are some that are not there. Thanks to "Bully," I find myself wondering about the "pyscho," "weirdo," and the lice kid. The things said to them 20-plus years ago kind of haunt me now. Maybe it's because I was recently married and think about the children my wife and I will have down the road.
Watching "Bully," I was reminded that for all the bullying PSAs and celebrity causes, school hallways and classrooms still have the problems of decades ago. It made me sad. Is this what awaits my children?
I'm now back to the start of this blog. Will bullies, the ones who should be changing, see it? Will parents? Will this movie simply be preaching to the concerned choir?
Can "Bully" make a difference?
April 09, 2012 04:10
By Matt Palmer
Anyone who's been on CatholicReview.org lately knows that Tom McCarthy Jr. has been turning out some outstanding slideshows and today's, while brief, is no different. In this exclusive slideshow to The Welcome Matt, we look back at last week's Youth and Young Adult Pilgrimage, as young people pass a large wooden cross, which was carried throughout a four-mile march through Baltimore City. It's lovingly called cross surfing around Baltimore.
Tom, Catholic Review's staff photographer since February, recorded students from Mount de Sales signing as they walked through Baltimore. He used that audio over the images of the cross surfing, which adds a fun layer.
Without further ado, here's the slideshow.
April 06, 2012 07:29
By Matt Palmer
Cardinal Edwin F. O'Brien was among the hundreds of people at the annual Archdiocese of Baltimore Youth and Young Adult Pilgrimage through the streets of Baltimore City March 31. The cardinal, who led his final pilgrimage as the head of the archdiocese, helped carry a large wooden cross for several blocks.
Here's a glimpse into what happened. There will be much more here on CatholicReview.org in the coming days. Be sure to listen to the Cardinal O'Brien's message to young people as well.
April 01, 2012 02:31
By Matt Palmer
NBA.com
Many media members covering New York Knicks star Jeremy Lin were
falling all over themselves to come up with puns related to his name in
February. Lin, who is of Taiwanese heritage, became a major NBA story
when he came off the bench and began leading the Knicks to comeback
victories.
Not many people stopped to think that "Linsane" or
"Linsanity" could lead to insentive takes on his Asian heritage. But,
when former ESPN.com editor Anthony Federico wrote a headline saying
"Chink in the armor" following a loss, people stopped laughing quickly.
Federico was fired by ESPN.
That could have been the end of the
story for Federico, who would forever be known as an insensitive media
member fired for his actions and that was that.
But, Lin met Federico for lunch March 26, talking about their Christian faiths among other things, according to Newsday.
"It
went incredible," Federico told Newsday. "I'm just so excited we had
the chance to meet. We talked for an hour. I'm just so thankful."
Lin wouldn't talk about the lunch to Newsday, but has said repeatedly, "You have to learn to forgive," since the ESPN.com incident.
Lin
is an example of living out Christian faith. Forgiveness, whether
you're a Catholic, Baptist, Lutheran or Methodist, is at the core of our
faith. When Peter asked Jesus how often he should forgive the man who
sins against him, Jesus says "Seventy times seven," ultimately. While
the number is 490 in real terms, Jesus meant we should always forgive.
Lin is showing that he's a man who accepts Jesus' challenge and lives it in reality.
March 28, 2012 10:40
By Matt Palmer
October Baby is the movie few people want, but its message can't be pushed to the side.
The film, which opens today in nearly 400 theaters across the country, is about a teenage girl, Hannah, who discovers she survived an abortion. She goes on a trip to try and find the woman who tried to abort her and ask questions. The American conversation about abortion has become politicized. The film tries to bring the procedure back to its human elements, whether people want that or not.
October Baby resonates at its most unflinching moments and its pro-life producers do little to hide their agenda. Jasmine Guy (star of the 1980s and 1990s sitcom "A Different World) appears briefly, but memorably, as a former nurse haunted by the day Hannah came into the world. Her dialogue is the kind of language often used by former employees of abortion clinics. Guy's role is risky in many ways for a Hollywood actress. It's not politically correct, but it is poignant.
John Scheinder, of Dukes of Hazzard and Smallvillle fame, plays Hahhah's father. He, along with his wife, adopted the girl infant as she struggled for life in the hospital. The couple never told her of her roots. Schneider plays the role very similar to the way he did Jonathan Kent in Smallville: super protective and down home. Scheinder brings some weight to the project, which is filled with young actors such as Rachel Hendrix, who plays Hannah.
Hannah's character is Job in many ways. She's constantly being kicked and you wonder how she's going to hold up under all the weight. Despite being beautiful, she's fragile and constantly ill. Hendrix plays Hannah appropriately and you feel the character's constant pain. The character's arc is fulfilling from a Christian perspective. She's not searching for her mother. She's looking to forgive and she gets that moment of encouragement from a Catholic priest, even though she's baptist.
The scene plays out in a cathedral and you feel Hannah breathe for the first time in her life.
Hannah's rock in the film is her lifelong platonic friend, Jason (Jason Burkey). They grow closer in the film, but their intimacy is mental, not physical. He supports Hannah in her search for her mother and finds that his own girlfriend is toxic and selfish, unlike Hannah.
Beyond Guy, October Baby's strongest emotional moments come from Shari Rigby, who plays the abortive mother confronted with her past. I talked with Rigby, who actually had own real life abortion, and it was interesting to hear how that impacted her performance. Stay through the credits to hear her story.
The movie falters at moments when the film's writers realize they're dealing with heavy material and try to sprinkle in humor. There's nothing wrong with providing levity, but it attempts to shoehorn road trip montages which allude to more dangerous comedies like Road Trip and The Hangover. Of course, none of the humor in October Baby is ever close to being gross out or offensive, but the scenes felt like studio notes to lighten up the film and give it a cool factor. It feels like a Christian film version of those comedies and that's when it feels the most lame.
One can understand why the scenes are there, A movie about an abortion survivor, even with a female teenage protagonist, isn't a great sell. It doesn't help that the movie is opening against The Hunger Games, which will be on thousands of more screens nationwide. Teenagers will be flocking to that film.
October Baby will have a hard time getting beyond its pro-life audience this weekend. Those that go will be fulfilled and happy a story like this is being told. All it takes is a few people to stumble into the theater, though, to get the conversation going once again. If the movie is successful in making people reconsider their stance on abortion, it will have been a success for the movie's makers.
March 23, 2012 10:23
By Matt Palmer
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